Spiritual Security Planning for the High Holy Days

If we want people to be able to settle into a position of openness to the messages of the Days of Awe, we need to first help them feel safe—physically as well as spiritually.

Learning to Pray on the back of a Jet Ski

Suddenly my mind formed a prayer. “May my oneness connect with the oneness of the dolphins.” More flowed forth: “May my echad connect to my son’s joy of speed and jet power.”

On Yearning

How dare I ask for something more when I already have so much?

On Becoming a Previvor: My Journey to Prevent a Cancer Diagnosis

With my family’s support, I made the decision to go through elective surgeries that could lower my risk of breast and ovarian cancers to single digits.

Who Pulls the Trigger for Us? Why American Jewry Must Confront the Ethics of Power 

It is intolerable that Israeli Judaism must constantly grapple with the agonizing weight of physical force while liberal American Judaism remains comfortably disengaged.

A New-Old Currency For Celebrating Our 250th All Year Long

Imagine if we all simply agreed to start any conversation about America or American Jewish life with an articulation of the things about which we are grateful.

Attention Is a Form of Prayer

I found people who understand that, at their best, science and faith are not rivals but two disciplines of devotion.

What Cows and Donkeys Can Teach Us About How to Grieve

Death and grief affect many people who seem ancillary to those most directly impacted.

When “Only” Isn’t the Only Choice

The assumption that there is only one path to true and perfect joy, especially when one makes that claim in the name of God, or any other redemptive scheme be it religious or political, has a rather deadly track record in human history.

We Need to Experience the Seder to Grow Our Resilience

Seder rituals can be tools of well-being and resilience that we can call up whenever we feel the need for strength or joy.

You Are Your Choices 

Mistakes will happen, and that’s OK.

Three Thoughts after Totality

While words and photos will never be able to capture the experience of totality, a few thoughts came to me … Continue Reading

(Almost) Eclipsing the Eclipse

As the wine steward said to Pharaoh in Genesis 41:9, “I declare my sins now.” The sin I declare now … Continue Reading