Eldest Daughter Syndrome
I told her she’s an amazing daughter, and I confessed to her all the ways I believe I have failed my mother.
I told her she’s an amazing daughter, and I confessed to her all the ways I believe I have failed my mother.
The feeling of being in a space devoted to care, not by Jews for Jews but by allies for Jews, was almost breathtaking.
Each memory clicked into color like a film cell, telling a story of who my father was.
The woman behind you in line at the grocery store or the man sweeping the street could be one of the souls holding up the world.
Death and grief affect many people who seem ancillary to those most directly impacted.
Our advantage is that we are geniuses at raising children. Our failure is that we are terrible at raising adults.
I know nothing more about him, despite how intimately we spent time with his body, but I know that he was and is holy.
Planning a vacation when your parent is dying presents a host of challenges I hadn’t anticipated.